Twenty-four years ago, I proudly stood on my college graduation stage and declared to the world: I am dyslexic. No more hiding. But recently, I was tempted to pull out my old “I’m not neurodiverse” mask after hearing damaging language from public officials.
In this raw and honest reflection, I share how fear, shame, and doubt resurfaced—and why I ultimately chose to stay visible. If you’re on your own neurodivergent journey or questioning whether it’s safe to be your full self, this message is for you.
✨ Your brain isn’t broken—it’s brilliantly different. And that difference is exactly what the world needs.
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I almost went into hiding and pulled up my I’m not neurodiverse mask.
Twenty-four years ago, I stood at my college graduation and announced to the world that I am dyslexic. No more hiding my different brain.
Recently, when I heard a government official call autism an epidemic and a tsunami, that old feeling returned. Maybe it’s not safe for me to be open about being neurodivergent.
For a week, I felt angry and shameful and fear, and I had questions about: Is it safe? Do I need to hide?
Then I realized—if I’m feeling this way, oh my gosh, after years of growth and support—other people beginning this journey must be so struggling.
This is not a terminal condition or a burden. You are the brilliant minds behind exploration, technology, business, innovation.
I am the captain of this life. I am not defined by labels others use to make themselves comfortable.
For those that need to apply those labels to me—your lack of vision won’t hold me back.
I choose to be visible to others so they can see what’s possible when you embrace your different thinking.
Thank you.
How do you deal with the labels other people try to put on you? Drop a comment below.
Remember—your brain isn’t broken, it’s different. And different is exactly what the world needs.
I’m JoyGenea, International Neurodiversity Success Coach, guiding people to their gifts and talents, and to leading thriving and successful lives.
